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Week 13: Embracing Your Valuable Flaws [Loveable 014]
"Perfection is overrated. Competition makes us common. The game is over. You are here to be unique. You are here...
Week 12: The Voice of Grace [Loveable 013]
"Grace isn’t just acceptance of the status quo. Grace contains the status quo—all of our struggle and pain and mess—and...
An Old Man’s 7 Resolutions for a New Year
As we age, it seems, life presents us with two options: denial or humility. And, in my opinion, if you...
Week 11: Choosing Which Voices to Listen to Around You [Loveable 012]
"Maybe growing up and growing healthy is as simple as discerning which voices to allow in, and learning how to...
Week 10: Why Shame Is the Beginning of Your Story (Not the End of It) [Loveable 011]
"There is a place inside of you where a better voice is telling a better story about you. Let the next...
How to Show Up to Your Life
We traveled together, this young boy and I. We were in the back of a hired car, on the way...
Week 9: What to Do When Your Heart Feels Like a Jungle [Loveable 010]
"Embracing your worthiness is up to you and you alone—we cannot truly receive love until we have embraced that we...
Week 8: The Small Gate and Narrow Road Back to Your True Self [Loveable 009]
Emotional healing and spiritual growth are not about eliminating our pain; they are about approaching our pain. Rather than moving...
Week 7: You Are Not Your Thoughts (You Are the Observer of Your Thoughts) [Loveable 008]
"This is the promise of your pain: to relate to it properly, you must learn how to observe it, and...
How to Feel True Thanksgiving in Just 45 Seconds
The pain stabbed me awake. Near midnight, on an ordinary Sunday evening, I awoke to the feeling of someone inserting...
Week 6: Unbecoming Who You Are Not [Loveable 007]
"You already are what you are becoming. You don’t build what you are; you chip away at what you are...
Week 5: Letting Go of the Solution to All of Your Problems [Loveable 006]
What is the only thing worse than not getting what you want? Getting what you want. Because after you get...
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In his debut novel, Kelly weaves a page-turning, plot-twisting tale that explores the spiritual depths of identity and relationships, amidst themes of healing, grace, faith, forgiveness, and freedom.
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Dr. Kelly Flanagan is a psychologist, author, consultant, and speaker who enjoys walking with people through the three essentials of a truly satisfying life: worthiness, belonging, and purpose. His blog writings have been featured in Reader’s Digest, The Huffington Post, The 5 Love Languages, and the TODAY Show. Kelly is the author of Loveable and True Companions.